by congabebe » Wed Mar 05, 2003 7:01 pm
Thank you Michael and Johnny, I will keep working on it. It is awkward. As for my teacher, he is a great player, but He is not 'trained to be a teacher', I have taken many music lessons on flute and I am used to the 'book' method. Do you know what I mean? Here is the written song, this is how it is played, now go home and practice it. This guy plays and plays during the lesson, he sings the parts, he can reproduce so much but imitation is what I am learning. I have showed him some of the books that I have, taught him a little on music notation. But if I am to learn from him, I have to let him teach me the way he knows. I believe I am at fault, I believe you can learn from anyone if you keep an open mind. However, I may be looking down the road for a more polished 'educated' teacher. I go to Nashville to visit family from time to time, I have thought many times about looking up your friend Glen Caruba. I have bought 2 of his books, Afro Cuban Percussion and the Modern Percussionist, I need to work on those more diligently. Funny, but as much as I want to take a lesson, I don't want to waste one on the basic stuff, so I am not ready to look him up just yet. Are these bad excuses? Probably, but as you may remember, I am not a high school student, looking to set the world on fire with my talent. I have been to college/music schools, I am not going to make a living touring, or drive across country to audition for a band. I just play for fun and everything I have picked up has been from videos/books/etc and listening to music and of course my favorite the Conga Forum. Maybe I am not dreaming enough about it, setting my goals too low. I have been checking some other players out around town. If I got really good on percussion what could be my goals to accomplish? Play in a band, recording at a studio, teaching, ? I already play in a band, I have set in with some really fine musicians, but no one takes me seriously, no one wants to pay a percussionists. Memphis is the home of Elvis and the Blues. There maybe 2 people that specialize in latin music but they have day jobs. My teacher makes his living as a carpenter. And it is true that most of the people playing professionally have been 'established', studied with 'African' Masters, have Cuban family roots, have degrees, etc. This is the part that is laughable to me. Say I audition for the hottest Latino band in Memphis or dream on... Miami, I show up to compete against Cubans who played since they were babes and there I am a female Irish American from Tennessee. Who started playing by watching videos during a mid-life crisis? Who are they going to hire? "Yawl come back now ya here?" Yeah, no one falls for sterio-types in music. I have been around to know, you got to look the part on stage, the hair, the look, ... and you have to blend and work well with the other musicians. No offense guys but it is a boys club in many ways. As it is I play in an all male band. I got in the back door, I am married to the bass player, so I have no room to complain. The guys in the band are my brothers and they have given me a great opportunity. I love playing and am very grateful they let me do this. I want to get better because I need to earn their respect and make it enjoyable for them. I would hate to be the 'sore' thumb of the band. But, I got to have it together before I could compete in the 'real' world.
I really feel that to really go to that level, I would have to go back to school and get a masters in music and be prepared to travel. I would never be able to compete with someone that already has toured the world or is already working in the field to make a living at it. So far for me, it is a passion and a serious hobby. Is there someone who can share their story about what other options I could be looking at? Tell me I am foolish and that I am settling for less. If I drive to Nashville to get a private lesson, I think I need to more serious about that higher level, so far I have not found a reason to push it to that limit.
Johnny, when you teach, don't you screen your students to see what 'level' they are at before you decide to take them as a student. I had to audition for Music schools and Music camps, they don't just let anyone in school. Shouldn't I be a certain level before I look up a teacher like Glen Caruba?
Anyone like to comment? I hope I haven't offended anyone. I hope I am bringing some good discussion to the forum. I am not saying that I couldn't, or that I won't be accepted because of my race/sex/age, it is just that I know better than think I don't have some major obsticles to work with. There are some female drummers and conga players. If you are out there speak up!
Thank you for your patience,
Peace
Congabebe