Skin and Head FAQ

Some questions about skins and heads - thanks for any responses.
1. Skins come in different sizes - I typically see 18", 20", or 22" rounds. Would an 18" skin be big enough for a 14" drum (just an example)? What's the advice there? What would be too big or too small?
2. Flesh hoops: seems like the outside edge of the bottom of the rim should be about the same diameter as the inside edge of the flesh hoop - right? So the bare hoop would just fit inside the bare rim? Is there a better rule for sizing these if you need to buy a new hoop and don't have one to match existing?
3. Suppose a guy wanted to have his skins on most of the time but wanted to put on synthetic heads one weekend a month or something... can they be swapped back and forth pretty quickly once they're set - or is this a bad idea? Do you have to soak the skin head to soften it up a little bit each time?
4. Some skin suppliers say they'll pick out the best skins for your particular purpose - I infer that means type of music, type of environment, etc, makes sense. But if you're getting say, a set of steer hides - what else are they looking for? Maybe a little bit thicker (0.1mm?) for the tumba than the quinto but is there more to it than that? How likely is it that buying skins from such a supplier would be a lot better than just buying the top three steer skins on the pile from somebody else?
Thanks everybody. I really appreciate this forum.
1. Skins come in different sizes - I typically see 18", 20", or 22" rounds. Would an 18" skin be big enough for a 14" drum (just an example)? What's the advice there? What would be too big or too small?
2. Flesh hoops: seems like the outside edge of the bottom of the rim should be about the same diameter as the inside edge of the flesh hoop - right? So the bare hoop would just fit inside the bare rim? Is there a better rule for sizing these if you need to buy a new hoop and don't have one to match existing?
3. Suppose a guy wanted to have his skins on most of the time but wanted to put on synthetic heads one weekend a month or something... can they be swapped back and forth pretty quickly once they're set - or is this a bad idea? Do you have to soak the skin head to soften it up a little bit each time?
4. Some skin suppliers say they'll pick out the best skins for your particular purpose - I infer that means type of music, type of environment, etc, makes sense. But if you're getting say, a set of steer hides - what else are they looking for? Maybe a little bit thicker (0.1mm?) for the tumba than the quinto but is there more to it than that? How likely is it that buying skins from such a supplier would be a lot better than just buying the top three steer skins on the pile from somebody else?
Thanks everybody. I really appreciate this forum.